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Moment to moment is how we survive.
Moments collide and single touches to the heart arise.
As the touches arise,
the love grows deeper.
The deeper the love grows,
the body becomes weaker.
The only strength that your body can with stand is to act on emotions.
When your emotions finally have their fill,
the moment of passion and love makes time stand still.

Moments caught out of love bring two persons together.
Some say these specific moments in life last forever.
Many say forever is to long,
but in reality these moments pulled together is lifetime.
A lifetime of sensual pleasures can be indulgence to the mind.


Whatever That Be Falls,
I Feel It Too,
When I Sorrow Most,
It's Better To Be Loved Rather Than Lost,
Than Never To Be Loved Before....

If I Die Tonight,
I'll Go With No Regrets,
If It's In Your Arms,
I Know That I Was Blessed,
And If Your Eyes Were The Last Thing That Met Mine,
Then I Know The Beauty Of Heaven Awaits For Me...
I Know Im Not The Best For Youh ,But Promise That You'll Never Leave Me Alone Baby


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Saturday, November 21, 2009, 11:29 PM
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Relationships are all part and parcels of life when you are growing up.
So are breakups when the relationship sours.
But breaking up is never and can even become a truly difficult and distressing affair.
Just look at celebrity breakups like Joe Jonas and Taloyr Swift - they both wrote songs slamming each other after they broke up publicly.
So how can you go about engineering an amicable split?
is there a 'perfect' method of how to break up with someone?
1. Think it through - First, remember that not all relationships are smooth sailing.
A long-term relationship requires hard work and commitment.
if you are going to give up as soon as the going gets tough,
you will never be able to sustain any long-term relationships.
Therefore,
if you are thinking of breaking up,
spend a few days to seriously consider if this is what you really want.
Think about what future see in this relationship.
Ensure that your decision to break up is not made in the heat of an argument.
And girls - do ensure that it is not hormones talking.
It is scientifically proven that we tend to be more emotionally imbalanced during certain periods each month.
2. Take a breather - We all need breathers away from out boy/ girlfriend from time to time.
However, this does not necessarily mean we want the relationship to be OVER.
A good way to decide which is it that you need is to take a short breather away from eachother.
If you dont want the other party to know,
make u some excuses about how you are going to be very busy for a week.
If after that week you find yourself missing him/her,
then obviously a breakup is not the best idea.
However, if after that breather week you feel that you did not miss your other haf,
perhaps it is time to seriously consider splitting.
3.Decide on the time - After you had gone through the first two steps and still decide that it is best if you and you boy / girlfriend go your own ways,
you need to focus on informing boy / girlfriend os your decision.
Dont procrastinate.
The longer you stay in a relationship,
the more emoyionally invested each party gets in th relationship and this tends to lead to messier and more difficult breakups.
however, do note that you should choose a good time for it.
Asking for a breakup right before something major ( for example, an important test) foro thhe other half is not going to keep the breakup clean,
as it will severely distract the other party.
4.Prepare for the process - Most people like to avoid conflict.
And initiating a breakup is essentially a confrotation,
possibly awkward and not easy to deal with.
Heance, to avoid freezing at the crucial moment,
haveing a clear plan as to how you want to proceed moght help avoid a messy situation.
Do have at least a rough idea of what you are going to say.
Prepare at least a reason or two on why you want to break up.
if the real reason why you want to break up is along the lines of ' boredom with the relationship' or ' wanting tofind someone better looking',
be sure to give a more neutralreson to your boy/ girlfriend to avoid hurting him/ her more.
You could say that you need to focus on your studies or that your parents think that having a relationship a this age is not advisable.
You so want to keep the breakup cordial after all.
5.Be nice while breaking up - it sounds like common sense,
but some people do forget and start off by blaming the other party for the breakdown of the relationship.
This is a sure-fire way fpr the breakup to turn ugly.
So to avoid the blame game.
Try to also be as nice as possible when breaking up.
Remember, you may be breaking someone else's heart.
So don't laugh during the rpocess and dont be mean.
Do express gratitude for the times shared and the lessons you have learnt from being together with your boy / girlfriend
6. Dont send mixed signals - The best thing you can do to prevent a messy and prolonged breakup is keep your messages clear to the other party.
many people like to say things like,
' let's continue being frineds' or 'let's stay in touch'.
This is perhaps to cushion the blow of the breakup for the other party or even to leave the door open for themselves.
However, this can be very dangerous territory and can easily cause the breakup to turn ugly.
Its is actually best, and only fair,
for the both parties if both of you can move on.
Stop keeping in touch for a few months so that everyone can start the healing process.
Keeping false hope alive prevents one from really moving on - this is not only unfair,
it is actually cruel.
So be clear and be strong.
Go for a clean break now;
you can reconnect later when you've both moved on emotionally.
click on the link below.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYARwbnZ16E&feature=related